The fastest way to change the decisions that are made is to change who is making the decisions.

You can’t expect change if you don’t want to disrupt power. If you fear disruption more than you fear what’s currently happening, apparently things haven’t gotten bad enough for you yet. Just wait. It will get worse.

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Men: We are not chapters in your redemptive arc. Stop victimizing us as a way to work out your trauma.

The women in these stories are collateral damage, and the purpose of their existence within these narratives is the opportunity they provide for men to grow and learn. The fact of those women’s suffering is at best a footnote.

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